As with work, study, going to the gym, eating, and even eating, sex is vital to a good relationship, but it can easily become routine and boring. If that happens, you and your man will start looking elsewhere for their thrills. Sometimes, they can also lose their sex drive. In this case, taking some prescribed sex enhancement pills can really help.
Still, do not let this happen to your relationship. Until this blog teaches you everything you need to know, these five sex tips will give you a great start to eliminating boredom from your relationship and sex life. So let’s get started. Or should I say, let’s get hot.
Explore Every Sex Position in the World
It’s the easiest yet most effective method of keeping things interesting. If your man is not interested in trying out new sex positions, you will need to initiate them yourself. Take a few positions (only one or two) from the sex positions section and keep them in mind the next time you are in bed with your boyfriend. You don’t have to tell him that you want to try them. Just do it and guide him along. If you’ve never taken the lead in bed before, you may feel a little nervous. However, your man will love it. It’s best to try out positions that require little flexibility and are easy to transition to.
Unleash You and Your Partner’s Inner Kinks and Fantasies
The problem for many people is that they think they’re weird or a bit ‘out there.’ They may not want to let their man know about their fantasies for fear of embarrassment or for fear of being ridiculed. You might have fantasies or desires that turn you on, but you never get to experience them in real life. What a sad world! What if you could explore them with someone you love?
Try Becoming the Dominant in Bed or Explore Your Submissive Side
One partner is slightly more dominant in bed, while the other one is slightly more submissive. Not in the D/S sense but in the sense that one partner is more eager to try out new things, change positions, or engage in sex with the other. Change your role next time you’re in bed with your man. If he usually wants to change positions, you should try to beat him to it and change positions. (Make sure to try out some new sex positions too!) Perhaps he’s usually the one to initiate sex. Why not try being the aggressive one this time? Try waiting until he initiates foreplay.
Take Sex Toys in Action
It’s always fun to play around with sex toys, especially if you want to spice things up. There are literally sex toys for everyone: for him and for her. During foreplay, sex toys are great for making each other hot and bothered. They can also be used in place of sex and during sex. I advise you, as I do with all of the tips you’ve read here: if you only rely on sex toys, then things will become boring and routine. Sex toys should be viewed as a spice, not the main course.
Dirty talk
There’s no rule for dirty talks; just follow your gut, and you’ll be fine. Instead of rehashing what’s already in the talking dirty section, you should really check if things work out for you and your partner. Women who don’t know what the power of talking dirty is like often use it to keep their men constantly turned on and thinking about them even when they’re not around.
The ultimate relationship killer is routine. This is why many couples have less sex when they get married. Understand that boredom not only affects your sex life but also your relationship. People drift apart and cheat on each other as a result of it.
